"The deterioration of the customer/retailer relationship lies more heavily with the customer,"
You might as well blame a customer for getting sick from eating bad food at a restaurant. The business owes it's existence to customers, not the other way around. As noted in the previous post, if you are going to charge more for the same item, there has to be some perceived value added that the customer WANTS to pay for - service, convenience, repair, good selection, etc. Otherwise, it just becomes a business hoping for dumb customers.
If that's what you think I should do, fine, I will. It's not nearly the same thing, though.
Customers are interested in one thing: Price. Period. They no longer care nearly as much about "value", which is comprised of far more than just the price they paid for a guitar.
Someone who holds out for a dirt cheap price isn't doing the dealer any favors. The dealer has to make money to remain viable. That's something that customers are well aware of, they just don't care. If they did, they wouldn't be having their new guitars shipped to them from all over the country. They would establish and nurture a relationship with their local guy. But that's not what happens at all.
Instead, they'll grind the guy on price, all the while swearing up and down that they're trying to support the dealer. They'll
claim they want to buy the guitar from him which, of course, isn't true. They want to buy it from whoever will drop their price the lowest, which is never doing a service to the dealer. I don't take issue with people who are up front about holding out for the best price above all else. I have a very real problem, though, who claim they care about anything else and clearly don't.
Personally, I would much rather spend more with my local guy and know that my business is helping him
stay in business. It's good for me (because I know he'll be around), it's good for him (he gets to stay in business) and it's good for the local community (because of the taxes collected).
Or I could just shuck and jive my way around the internet until I can save a hundred bucks.