Hi Burl,
First off, welcome aboard! And also congrats!
OK, big-time lover of cedar/rw here. You mentioned not liking elixir but perhaps consider this: elixir PhosBronze in medium-light gauge. IMHO, these sound great with lots of bass punch and depth, but also a crisp top end that is nicely defined, particluarly when I had mine rw/cedar.
Edward